by Kristen C. Strocchia
“The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.” Mark 12:31
If the two most important things that we do are: 1) to love God with everything about us, and 2) to love others like we love ourselves, then we must know what love is.
God’s definition? 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 contains a well-known list of love’s attributes–patience, kindness, not jealous or boastful or proud, etc. Moreover, Jesus called us to love one another the way He–who is God, who is good, and who is love–loves us [1 John 15:13]. He went on to say that, “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.“
All summed up? Love is the active, self-deferent care for another. It’s the golden rule lived without exception–not out of obligation–but out of genuine concern for every other human being, even those who don’t love us back [Luke 6:31].
How is that even possible? Learn to see people with God’s eyes.
He made everyone, and He loves each of us all the same. There are no favorites with God. In fact, Jesus made it clear that, “Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me,” [Matthew 25:40]. So by loving our fellow human, we are loving God Himself.
As a Mom, this has become so clear to me through my children, but you may want to think about this as having two best friends or two pet dogs. In both cases, you love both equally. No favorites, because they are yours. Because you chose them.
But what if one dog turns and tears the other apart. Would you allow it? Would you ignore it? Or would it break your heart to have to punish one and to watch the other one suffer? And if one best friend hated your other best friend? Just think about the grief of having to time-split, and hearing one constantly tearing the other person apart. But you love them both the same.
God feels this constantly as He watches His creation act hatefully one to another–sometimes willfully and other times thoughtlessly. But love is the golden rule on Energizer batteries–it just keeps going and going. Willing even to give one’s own life up for someone else’s sake.
Is there a limit to your love for others? Ask God to bring it to light and then to remove it from your heart. Is there a limit to your love for God? Seek Him until it dissolves in the refining fire of His presence.